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Expectant Indian-origin woman debates raising child in India over US, sparking online discussion about culture, education, and the ‘right age’ to move back home
Pregnancy often brings joy and anticipation — but for one NRI woman, it has also sparked a major life decision: whether to raise her child in the United States or return to India. The expectant mother took to Reddit to seek advice on the best age for kids to relocate to India, revealing that she plans to give up her child’s birthright US citizenship to ensure a more culturally rooted upbringing, reported financialexpress.com.
In her post, she wrote, “We are currently pregnant and will be having only one kid. We are thinking of moving to Bangalore. My concerns are kid’s education and adjustment to the compulsory Kannada language (and culture) there. Moving as soon as possible with a baby will be good in terms of support for baby care. But the more we can stretch, more will our savings be before we make the move.”
Her post has resonated with thousands of NRIs torn between global opportunities and the emotional pull of home.
Her dilemma — between financial stability abroad and emotional security in India — mirrors that of many Indian families overseas. While living abroad offers access to quality education and international exposure, many NRIs still crave the closeness of family networks, cultural belonging, and the comfort of community life in India.
Birthright citizenship, a key factor in her decision, grants automatic nationality to children born in certain countries like the US under the principle of jus soli — “right of the soil.” However, the couple plans to return to India soon after the baby’s birth, choosing values and family ties over the passport advantage.
Online users responded with overwhelming advice. “I think the earlier the better, before age six or seven,” one Redditor advised. Another added, “Move before your kid starts elementary school — it helps with language and cultural adjustment.”
Others emphasized emotional preparation over logistics. “Teach your child adaptability — every country has challenges. Kids who grow up with that mindset adjust anywhere,” wrote a user.
While opinions varied slightly, the consensus was clear: the younger the child, the easier the transition — ideally before age six.
