Dominika’s video underscores the power of lived experiences and highlights how cross-cultural understanding grows not from curated travel reels but from genuine interactions with people and places
A Polish woman living in India, Dominika Patalas Kalra, has captured social media attention with a viral Instagram reel that challenges several stereotypes foreigners often hold before visiting the country. Instead of showcasing iconic monuments or luxury experiences, her video focuses on the everyday truths she discovered while living in India — a perspective that resonated widely with Indian and international audiences.
Dressed in a traditional lehenga, Dominika begins her reel with the words, “I wish I knew it before I came to India,” followed by five observations based on her personal experiences. Her first point addresses a common food-related misconception: that Indian cuisine is universally spicy. She clarifies that travellers simply need to choose the right restaurants and dishes, reminding viewers of the country’s vast culinary diversity.
- Her strongest statement, which sparked debate online, was aimed at the stereotype of India as a poor nation
- “If you think India is poor,” she said, “then you have two options: don’t come here, or look around at how many people live extremely comfortably, often better than in Europe”
- This candid remark drew mixed reactions — many Indians appreciated the acknowledgment of rising prosperity, while others pointed out the country’s socioeconomic diversity and uneven development.
Dominika also encouraged visitors to explore local neighbourhoods rather than limiting themselves to tourist hotspots. She emphasized that India’s real warmth lies in the smaller interactions — in marketplaces, homes and streets where everyday culture thrives. She described the welcoming nature of people she met, adding that foreigners are often treated with exceptional hospitality.
Her reel triggered a lively conversation in the comments section, with many viewers sharing similar experiences of Indian generosity and cultural richness. Some noted that while India differs from Europe in infrastructure and social systems, it possesses unique strengths that outsiders often overlook.
The reel stood out for its grounded perspective. Rather than romanticizing or criticizing India, Dominika focused on balance — acknowledging challenges while celebrating culture, diversity and the surprising comforts she found.
Several commenters praised her for presenting India honestly and respectfully. One user wrote, “Thank you for showing the real India — not just stereotypes.” Another commented, “This is why travel matters. It breaks preconceived notions.”
